Totally agree. I have mentioned that we should set guidelines for buying and selling to each other such as "friends and Family" between well known members, a charge for packing is reasonable and also in cases of large items that are costly to ship or shipping to/from another country, the buyer should do research on shipping. I personally do not want to ship to another country and have the buyer ask me what the options are. That takes time on my end and it should be their call since they will pay for it.