Hot transmission tunnel.
I seriously doubt your transmission is the source of your hot center console. As others have said, the exhaust is the most likely culprit. Have you physically measured or even touched the transmission to include it as part of the equation? Hint: This would be a perfect opportunity to use a laser guided non contact thermometer I have seen advertised for less than $40. (HarborF)
Transmissions get hot not just because they sit behind a hot engine and hot radiator but because they contain a fair amount of friction. If the transmission were the source of the heat, I would bet you could hear plenty of warning signs. I also think that a seriously overheated transmission would result in severe drag, requiring more petrol and feel like it was on the verge of seizing.
Numerous makers of transmission lube claim their product reduces working temperatures versus the other maker's product. That may be true. I use auto trans fluid and have done so for years because when using some of the other products including Redline MT, shifting requires more effort.
Although improbable, it is always possible the source of your heat is something not mentioned, such as a leaky heater/heater hose. You did not mention any leaks, puddles or unusual smells, so understandably, no one would ordinarily target the heater or cooling system. But, a small amount of spray directed at or near the firewall and trans tunnel or even under the console could warm things up more than usual. On that note, is it possible you have a heater duct that is broken or torn? Then there is the possibility that the heater controls are goofed up so that the heat may be on whether you like it or not.
Remember, you have heat from a radiator, coolant and the exhaust. Any one of which could conceivably heat your console. I suppose I could mention hot tunes from the sound system, but I won't.
Good luck!