Likely that NGK is trying to protect themselves from shade tree gorillas (and lawsuits).
20% less torque when using antisieze will net roughly same tension depending on grade and size of fastener. Plating may enhance this scenario a bit.
Plating can weaken some substrates, but I don't think it's a factor here. It all about the friction between threads and resulting tension.
61- Bet you could hit 99% within spec without a torque wrench, lubed or not.