Stan, as the local-to-you guy who will have a set of mint, staggered 16" Alpinas up for sale next week (I'm going back to BBS), I think you should go with the 16s and buy mine though I do like the look of the 14s as John describes so I feel strongly both ways :shock:.
Do the 16s look blingy? Eh, I don't think so, but 17s do - too much wheel. Its a personal preference thing though you do get a broader tire selection with the bigger wheel.
You could have much worse problems...good luck with your decision!
Perhaps I could test drive them... down to the Vintage and back