Nightmare sounds a bit dramatic. One doesn’t stick 18’s on a car that originally came with 14’s without expecting to tinker a bit. There are several forum members running 18’s. I think the limited number of e9’s on 18’s has a lot to do with owner preference and little
18" wheels will be a nightmare to fit and make your car ride like sh1t. To retain some ride compliance 16" is the largest rim size to go for.
My car has a Carl Nelson front end - as above he shipped to the uk. Expensive but worth it.
Fitting wont be a problem but I agree with you driving quality will be worse. I drove it with original 14" and it drives nice smooth and nice through potholes.
But on other hand I think I will be doing max 1000 km with the car per year...