Mmm... 35 mph in first is reving way past 2500...?
35mph is past 5500-6000 in first gear and not recommended for very long without breakage.:twisted:
Try this... when it starts put your hand on the tunnel and feel if the vibration is front or rear... move your hand.
Get under the car and shake the bejusus out of the driveshaft and see it there's something loose. Check the guibo ( the rubber donut on the end of the trans) for cracks. Don't forget the little rubbers on the exhaust mount that attaches to the trans. Over rev?
What Steve means is this; the bearing between the two shafts should be pushed forward a 1/4" to preload the bearing/ rubber/ mount. If it looks a bit distorted or leaning towards the rear then loosen the two nuts, push it a bit forward and retighten.
Backlash in the diff- slop. It should be little to none.
And lastly, this isn't for everyone- jack up the car, secure it, run it in low and see if you can see the problem....After reading the first part of the sentence- safety. Careful.
After all that- driveshaft alighnment- a piece of string, streached, to make sure the shaft isn't ****ed off to the side, etc. And if that doesn't do it, reclock the driveshaft- unbolt one end, rotate 90 degrees and retighten.