I jack the front on the "frame" rails or middle of the crossmember, and use a plywood or another wood pad on my jack at the standard rear points. Distribution of the load, and not scratching the car, are the primary intentions. If you're concerned that rust has degraded the standard jack points to the point where they may give way (like my '58 Bug) then you have larger problems.
Jacking any car is easier if you drive it up on a 4x6 (actually 3.5" thick). I put a short 2x4 as a step-up before the 4x6. Mostly this is just so the jack can be rolled under the car more easily, and I can see the spot I'm applying the lift to. This particularly applies to my '01 325Ci which is low enough to the ground that my jack can't be rolled under it from the front.