I'm at a loss to understand what happened with the sidedrafts as they were awesome back in the day when tuned properly. The triples on my Bavaria engine Korman built was a monster, and as you point out, it was pretty loud too but sounded awesome wailing the the main straight at Summit Point or even in that autocross video. For my daily driver at the time (1980s) I had a '77 320i with a Korman stage 2+ engine which had dual 45 sidedrafts also along with a Schrick 304 cam, larger tube Stahl headers, etc, and it was a mini-beast of an M10 engined car. That transformation from the stock M10 with K-jet to that engine was unreal. I never had any issues with the DCOEs, and I loved the throttle response. Having those throttle plates just a few inches from the intake valves was amazing back at that time, and they made managing weight transfer in the Bavaria at the track so precise.
I don't know much about those ITBs/ECU setup, but I do agree with you on that motor deserving them. I would assume it can be tuned properly across the rev range/throttle opening range much more finely than a carb setup.
Glad you're getting it sorted! It won't be long and that large displacement M30 will be singing strongly I'm sure.