I like the thumbnail a lot. And its nice to see another coupe person here in the SE. Some events to consider:
-- I hear the Amelia Island Concourse is nice, and it is not far from you. Hagerty has recently taken over management of this event and plans to make it grow.
-- BMW CCA has run Ofest East in conjunction with the Hilton Head Concourse for the past two years. First time, we had a dozen coupes there. This year, turnout was more modest, but I'm hoping this becomes popular with BMW people.
-- Sharkfest is a great event that moves around in the S.E., although this often ends up in NC and may be a bit of a haul for you. Every few years, it is held at Spartanburg near the BMW factory. Last year it was in Chattanooga.
-- I'm told, although I haven't been that there is a big BMW presence at the Daytona endurance races through the BMWCCA chapter in that area. You are not far from there.
-- There is a very active social group in Atlanta run by Gary Beck (m5bb). Not sure what he has planned this year, but you might contact him and ask to get on his mailing list.
As to your garage, I have some suggestions. I will skip the obvious "go bigger" comment; most people would if they could.
Instead, I suggest looking at Stephen's "Raven's Nest" thread. I am retrofitting my garage to steal his lighting ideas, but there is other good stuff there too.
I know this is not cheap, but consider a mini-split unit for air conditioning. It is a crappy feeling when you have time and are into a portion of your work and you feel like you can't continue because the temp inside the garage is too high. I had this experience in Virginia many times because my garage faced south and was not shielded from the sun.
Another suggestion - Buy a lift and install it now. Not cheap but a game changer in terms of working on your car. In particular, it saves on your body and none of us are getting any younger.